The specialists of our online dating site are constantly working to improve your stay on the site and communication with the ladies. We conducted a small survey among some of our clients, and it turned out that the most common problem for men turned out to be to start an online chat with a lady, since men are shy and afraid of being rejected.
Thus, they lose the chance for rapprochement and flirting, since the ladies are not even against light flirting. We decided to draw up instructions on how best to start an online chat with a lady, how to behave during a conversation, and what to say. With this knowledge, every man, no matter how shy he is, will be able to start an online chat, flirt a little, and maybe win the heart of a beautiful lady. Everything is only in your hands.
How to start chat on our online dating site
First and foremost, don’t be shy. The girls somehow feel it even from a distance. Even if you think that a girl is not from your “league”, this does not mean that you cannot chat and flirt with her. And you can always hope for the continuation of the relationship.
Perhaps you have heard the expression “Ladies love with their ears”? So, this is the complete truth. But there is a difference for this expression for chat in real life and online. In real life chat, what matters for a lady is not what you say, but how you say it. Are you confident in yourself, how do you stick to her, how do you move, what is your tone, etc. The lady decides whether to start a chat with you or not, most often without even thinking about how you look. She is more interested in your behavior. When dating and chatting online, the principle “Ladies love with their ears” also works, but slightly different from real life. Since during online chat a lady cannot follow your tone, movements and other non-verbal signs, in online chat the lady looks at what you say. For her your words are very important. That is why you need to be original and interesting. Every day, ladies in online chats receive a bunch of the same type of messages like: “Hello, you are so beautiful”, etc. Ladies will not respond to your messages, if you are “like everyone else”, you need to stand out in an online chat, then the probability that a lady will respond increases many times. We will give examples of such original messages for online chat. You can use them if you like, but remember that it’s always best to create such messages yourself.
Here are some examples for online chat with a lady:
- Is there an airport nearby or is it my heart taking off?
- I was wondering if you had an extra heart. Mine was just stolen.
- Did the sun come out or did you just smile at me?
- Kiss me if I’m wrong, but dinosaurs still exist, right?
- Is your name Google? Because you have everything I’ve been searching for.
- Was you father an alien? Because there’s nothing else like you on Earth!
- Do you have a pencil? Cause I want to erase your past and write our future.
- You don’t need keys to drive me crazy.
- You are like my favorite cup of coffee, hot and lip smacking!
- I’m going to give you a kiss. If you don’t like it, just return it.